Gathered Wisdom, Dec. 1

For with you is the fountain of life;
    in your light we see light
(Psalm 36:9).

What shall we do with Advent this year? Traditionally, Advent is a season of waiting joyfully, expectantly, with hope. Have we run out of hope in this trying time of COVID? Are we just too tired to keep on going? So were the Israelites in the Exodus, say a lot of writers. Here are four perspectives on Advent and the pandemic.

A Very COVID Christmas

What does Advent have to do with Exodus have to do with COVID? Might our experience of COVID be like the Exodus journey of the Israelites asks the Rev. Jay George of Grace Episcopal Church, San Antonio, in his sermon on the first Sunday of Advent. And what might God be saying to our hearts in this season of Advent about all of it? 

Watch the sermon here.

FROM Grace Episcopal Church, San Antonio

New Life Emerges From The Dark 

Advent is a time of threshold, says the Rev. Mike Marsh, rector of St. Philip’s Episcopal Church in Uvalde, Texas. It is a time “that leaves us betwixt and between, neither here nor there. It’s that space between what has been and what will be, the old that is no longer and the new that is not yet, life as it was and life as it might be. It’s the space between Good Friday and Easter Sunday. It’s the wilderness between Egypt and the promised land.” 

It’s us in this time of COVID, waiting for some relief from possible vaccines but not knowing when or how or if that will happen and unsure of the result when it does happen. 

Read the sermon from the first Sunday of Advent.

FROM: The Rev. Mike Marsh blog

Redeeming All Brokenness

Diana Butler Bass recalls an old Advent tradition that, she says, seems oddly resonant this year. In earlier times, the four weeks of Advent lifted up theological themes related to endings — death, judgment, heaven, and hell. “As such,” says Bass, “Advent was a season of penitence and warning, of confession and fasting, like a ‘little Lent.’ This reading of Advent emerged in the early Middle Ages, reaching its zenith of spiritual popularity — perhaps not unsurprisingly — in the decades of the Black Death.

“I’m glad that Christians turned away from the grim penitential aspects of Advent’s medieval practice. But something else is true this year. Since the beginning of the pandemic, I’ve never thought quite so much about death. About the genuine possibility that COVID might kill me or someone I love — as it has done to more than a million others around the world. 2020 has been a year of both avoiding and facing death. We don’t need penance or repentance — or any other guilt-ridden religious activity. But we surely need to consider what it has meant to be surrounded by a dread of death.”

Read the blog.

What In Your Life Could Use a Fresh Start?

Brother David Vryhof of the Society of St. John the Evangelist sees the connection between this Advent and the pandemic through which we are still living. “While we had hoped that this season of sickness would be short-lived, in reality it has continued to plague us for months beyond the medical community’s initial projections, and though the prospect of a vaccine has shed some light of hope on the road ahead, we have been warned that there is more sickness and death in our immediate future.  So we continue to hold on, doing what we can to curb the spread of the disease, taking care not only of the sufferers but of their caregivers, and of one another, enduring the darkness until the light shines once more.” 

Read the essay, below.

FROM the Society of St John the Evangelist

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Gathered Wisdom, Nov 24

A weekly collection of inspiration and resources for the journey, gathered from websites, books, and pass-alongs that have been shared with us. From The Wisdom Years – Spirituality for the Last Third of Our Lives.

Lo, he comes.  To aching hearts. To exhausted people. To warring societies. To fractured families. To anger in the streets, and madness in the capitol, and grief in our homes.  He comes to remind us – again – that the Kingdom of God is available and near, and we can choose to participate in it. 

Advent calls us to a time apart, a time of serious reflection on how we will live the lives that have been formed in us and around us. Where we are is where we are – some of it by our own choosing, some of it foisted upon us, some of it deeply lamentable, some of it worth celebrating joyfully. 

The invitation of Advent is to get serious about how we will each respond to the gifts the Christ child brings. Let us begin.

Here are some of the Advent offerings from around the Internet that we are aware of. (We welcome your input of others you know about.) We suggest you select one or more that speak to your soul and sign up to participate throughout Advent.  For the four weeks of Advent, Gathered Wisdom will reflect upon some of these offerings.

Advent begins this Sunday, Nov. 29.

Words into Flesh: Monastery Scribes IV

“Emmanuel, God with us, is coming.” But how can we prepare for Christmas, for this miraculous moment that marks the birthing of God into each member of the human race? “I think poetry, music and art are the truest companions for our Advent journey of wonder and hope,” says Mary Lou Kownacki, who will facilitate this eRetreat.

During the four weeks of Advent, participants will receive a poem, a work of art, and a musical selection to reflect on, along with a writing prompt. The only requirement for the course is love of imagination, beauty, and a longing for the day when “in the tender compassion of our God the dawn from on high shall break upon us, to shine on those who dwell in darkness…and to guide our feet into the way of peace.”

FROM Monasteries of the Heart

To join the eRetreat.

Lux Divina: A 2020 Advent 

Friday, November 27 – Friday, December 25

The Advent season and Christmas are known for their awe-inspiring sacred stories, stunning visual images, and soothing or soaring music. This year we invite you to practice Lectio Divina, Visio Divina, and Musica Divina with these rich resources. These practices will help us create a spacious and reflective time in community.

Lux Divina: A 2020 Advent Journey is an offering from Spirituality and Practice with their  partners at Contemplative Outreach. Starting on Friday, November 27, you will receive email lessons three times a week through Christmas. You’ll have access to an online Practice Circle, a forum open 24/7, to share your reflections with a worldwide community. Then on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, you can join a Zoom prayer group to both pray in silence and do the three “Divina” practices with others participating in the e-course.

FROM Spirituality and Practice

Read more and register.

Advent Word

For the seventh year in a row, #AdventWord will gather prayers via a global, online Advent calendar. Beginning Sunday, Nov. 29, images and meditations can be experienced via the #AdventWord website, direct daily emails, as well as on FacebookInstagram and Twitter, and ASL videos via YouTube. This year, meditations will also be available in English, Spanish, and Haitian Creole.

Around the world, prayers ascend in response to the meditations. People post their reflections on their respective social media pages, tagging AdventWord on the platform. From there, AdventWord shares and reposts on each site – amplifying the prayers during this holy season.

FROM Virginia Theological Seminary and Forward Movement

Learn more and sign up.

Blue Christmas

The Advent and Christmas season is often associated with joy, love, generosity, and unity. But for many people, this time of year magnifies loneliness, anxiety, grief, and despair. While others are enjoying celebrations with their friends and families, those who are hurting often feel even more lost, abandoned, and alone than ever.

“Not all Christmases are white; some are blue,” Todd Outcalt writes. Blue Christmas is a devotional book for the 28 days of Advent and Christmas Day. Each devotion includes a scripture selection, meditation, prayer, and suggested Advent action. The book also features additional prayers, a “Blue Christmas” worship service, and reflection questions.

FROM The Upper Room

For more about it.

Way of Love Advent Calendar

The Way of Love is a way of life that was introduced by Presiding Bishop Michael Curry at the General Convention in 2018. More than a program or curriculum, it is an intentional commitment to a set of practices: Turn, Learn, Pray, Worship, Bless, Go, Rest. An Advent calendar produced by the Episcopal Church invites you to engage each of these practices with particular actions every day of Advent. 

For full information about Way of Love, go here.

To download the Advent calendar.

Arts & Faith: Advent

Ignatian Spritualty. Com offers video commentary about works of art inspired by the Sunday Scriptures of Advent. Use these videos to take a new look at this season of preparation through the lens of sacred art. Accompanying dotMagis blog posts offer reflections on using the art as a means of Ignatian prayer. Also on this site – podcasts, prayer, reflections for Advent.

FROM Ignatian Spirituality.com

For more information.

Living Well Through Advent 2020

Designed for use as an individual reflection or for group study (including online as part of an Advent class or great), this resource from Living Compass provides a foundation for seeking a deeper experience of Advent, an experience that will help prepare us for the true meaning of Christmas. Available in both print and electronic editions.

From Living Compass.

For more information.

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Gathered Wisdom is from The Wisdom Years, a ministry that invites older adults to deepening spirituality in the last third of their lives. If someone forwarded this to you, learn more about The Wisdom Years and subscribe to the site at
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Gathered Wisdom, Nov. 17

A weekly collection of inspiration and resources for the journey, gathered from websites, books, and pass-alongs that have been shared with us. From The Wisdom Years – Spirituality for the Last Third of Our Lives.

We must remind ourselves that, though our lives are small and our acts seem insignificant, we are generative elements of this universe, and we create meaning with each act that we perform or fail to perform.

— Kent Nerburn in Make Me an Instrument of Your Peace by Kent Nerburn

FROM Spirituality and Practice

Lamps of a heavenly wisdom

By Br. Sean Glenn, Society of St. John the Evangelist

As the bridegroom was delayed, all of them became drowsy and slept. (Matt 25:5).

“Friends, I don’t think it is a stretch to say that we know this feeling of delay. In the midst of social division, pandemic, and so much more, it really does look like the bridegroom is delayed. It is easy to feel like the Kingdom is impossibly far off. We may fear that we have, like the foolish bridesmaids, forgotten to bring enough oil. The sun set hours ago, but the bridegroom still isn’t here. Do we have enough oil to keep our lamps burning much longer? With the psalmist we pray, ‘How long, O Lord?’ ” 

Read the entire essay

FROM Society of St. John the Evangelist

A Lesson Learned From an Old Lady’s Tears

By Crista Cloutier

“I drove to the Mediterranean Sea to look at the water. 
I drove to the Mediterranean Sea to dream.
Instead, I saw her.
Bent over from age, she moved ever so slowly placing one foot in front of the other. She seemed confused, frightened.”

Read this poignant poem

FROM The Working Artist

A Prayer for the Threshold

“The long interim threshold phase within initiation is the place where the reckoning and turmoil, the revelations and transformation happen. This can feel like a thrashing.  Who among us would dispute that?”

Read the essay.

FROM A Network for Grateful Living

Words into Flesh: Monastery Scribes IV

An online Advent Retreat from Monasteries of the Heart
November 30 – December 25.

The news IS extraordinary: “Emmanuel, God with us, is coming.” But how can we prepare for Christmas, for this miraculous moment that marks the birthing of God into each member of the human race? “I think poetry, music and art are the truest companions for our Advent journey of wonder and hope,” said Mary Lou Kownacki, who will facilitate this eRetreat.

During the four weeks of Advent, participants will receive a poem, a work of art, and a musical selection to reflect on, along with a writing prompt. The only requirement for the course is love of imagination, beauty, and a longing for the day when “in the tender compassion of our God the dawn from on high shall break upon us, to shine on those who dwell in darkness…and to guide our feet into the way of peace.” 

FROM Monasteries of the Heart

What would Thomas Merton do in 2020?

An online retreat from Spirituality and Practice
November 22 through New Year’s Eve, December 31

“My Lord God,
I have no idea where I am going.
I do not see the road ahead of me.
I cannot know for certain where it will end.”

These are the opening words of Thomas Merton’s famous prayer that speaks of not knowing the future, the desire to please God, trust, and not being afraid.  Spirituality and Practice invites us to spend the last days of 2020 exploring other ways that the wisdom of Thomas Merton is relevant to our times. This Trappist monk, writer, civil rights activist, and peacemaker was a master of everyday spirituality, finding meaning and things to celebrate in everything he experienced. 

Participants will receive an email each day with a short passage from one of Merton’s books or journals along with a practice suggestion for bringing what he observes or recommends into life. The community will also post their responses to the readings and their experiences with the practices in an online Practice Circle.

For more information and to register.

FROM Spirituality and Practice

The Haudenosaunee Thanksgiving Address – Greetings to the Natural World 

The Thanksgiving Address (the Ohen:ton Karihwatehkwen) is the central prayer and invocation for the Haudenosaunee (also known as the Iroquois Confederacy or Six Nations — Mohawk, Oneida, Cayuga, Onondaga, Seneca, and Tuscarora). It reflects their relationship of giving thanks for life and the world around them. The Haudenosaunee open and close every social and religious meeting with the Thanksgiving Address.  

It is also said as a daily sunrise prayer, and is an ancient message of peace and appreciation of Mother Earth and her inhabitants. The children learn that, according to Native American tradition, people everywhere are embraced as family. Our diversity, like all wonders of Nature, is truly a gift for which we are thankful.

Read The Thanksgiving Address

FROM Dance for All People

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Gathered Wisdom, Nov 10

A weekly collection of inspiration and resources for the journey, gathered from websites, books, and pass-alongs that have been shared with us. From The Wisdom Years – Spirituality for the Last Third of Our Lives.

Follow

For thousands of years our forebears in the faith have been following the path to God, and while they may be invisible to the eye, the path they walked stretches out ahead of us, beckoning us on, as we take our turn on this journey into the heart of God. As we have followed, so others will follow us, looking for what we have left behind marking the way. 

-Br. James Koester
Society of Saint John the Evangelist

Where are we now? 

by Br. David Vryhof
Society of St. John the Evangelist

We have come, at last, to the end of one of the most bitterly contested national elections this country has ever seen.  For many of us, finally naming a winner doesn’t bring the resolution we hoped it would; it feels like we’re all on the losing side in this contest.  We are like two battered and weary fighters standing in the middle of the ring, faces bruised and bleeding, bent over with exhaustion, waiting for the referee to raise the arm of one of us.  Our country is as divided as ever.  

Read the entire essay.

FROM Society of St John the Evangelist

Prophetic Voices: Preaching and Teaching Beloved Community

An Advent podcast series
from The Episcopal Church

Across our church and our society, we are having profound dialogues about race, truth, justice, and healing. Coming this Advent, Prophetic Voices: Preaching and Teaching Beloved Community explores where that dialogue intersects with our faith. Join us and our invited guests as we share prophetic voices and explore the readings for each week of Advent and Christmas Day through the lens of social justice.

For more information.

FROM Episcopal News Service

A World of Daily Advent Meditations

For the seventh year in a row, #AdventWord will gather prayers via a global, online Advent calendar. Virginia Theological Seminary is offering meditations and images during this holy season beginning Sunday, November 29. Images and meditations can be experienced via the #AdventWord website, direct daily emails, as well as on FacebookInstagram and Twitter, and ASL videos via YouTube. This year, meditations will also be available in English, Spanish, and Haitian Creole.

Around the world, prayers ascend in response to the meditations. People post their reflections on their respective social media pages, tagging AdventWord on the platform. From there, AdventWord shares and reposts on each site – amplifying the prayers during this holy season. Find the social feed on our website, or on your favorite social media platform. 

Learn more.

FROM Advent Word

The Legacy Writing Workshop Series

Three online workshops from Sage-ing International

November 10 – Writing Legacies of the Virus, COVID-19 and Racism 

December 8 – The Legacy of Secrets 

January 12  – The Legacy of Messengers, Mentors, and Angels 

Legacy writing, one pathway to your spiritual self, and to a deep connection with loved ones and future generations still to come, may be best practiced in community, with a group of like-minded and unique others.  In this Sage-ing International “Beyond the Basics” online event, we hope to bring together a global circle of elders who have that goal.

For more information and to register.

FROM Sage-ing International

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Gathered Wisdom, Nov 3

A weekly collection of inspiration and resources for the journey, gathered from websites, books, and pass-alongs that have been shared with us. From The Wisdom Years – Spirituality for the Last Third of Our Lives.

America, America
On this momentous election day in our country, we recall the words of Jesus as he mourned for his people gone astray: “Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to it! How often have I desired to gather your children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing! (Matthew 23:37). Let us today gather as God’s beloved brood and join together in prayer and reflection for the soul of our country. 

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We offer you these resources

Prayer for the Election

Almighty God, to whom we must account for all our powers and privileges: Guide the people of the United States in the election of officials and representatives; that, by faithful administration and wise laws, the rights of all may be protected and our nation be enabled to fulfill your purposes; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
The Book of Common Prayer, p 822.

Who Will We Be On Wednesday?

By Bishop Jennifer Brooke-Davidson
Diocese of Virginia

November 2, 2020: Today is All Souls Day, Dia de los Muertos, a moment spent between the worlds, which feels eerily fitting, because Election Day is tomorrow.  This week feels like we are careening from an unnerving present into an unknown and frightening future – whatever the outcome of the election.  There are dire predictions everywhere – again, whatever the outcome.  And there’s the distinct possibility that we will be stuck for a time in another, deeper level of limbo – or is it purgatory? – than the one we’ve inhabited now for months.  Who will pray us out of this??? (And who will bring us marigolds and ofrendas if it goes badly?)

Continue reading

The Heart of Democracy

By Parker Palmer

Excerpt from Richard Rohr’s Daily Meditation, November 3, 2020
The Center for Action and Contemplation

Of all the tensions we must hold in personal and political life, perhaps the most fundamental and most challenging is standing and acting with hope in the “tragic gap.” On one side of that gap, we see the hard realities of the world, realities that can crush our spirits and defeat our hopes. On the other side of that gap, we see real-world possibilities, life as we know it could be because we have seen it that way. . . .

If we are to stand and act with hope in the tragic gap and do it for the long haul, we cannot settle for mere “effectiveness” as the ultimate measure of our failure or success. Yes, we want to be effective in pursuit of important goals. . . . [But] we must judge ourselves by a higher standard than effectiveness, the standard called faithfulness. Are we faithful to the community on which we depend, to doing what we can in response to its pressing needs? Are we faithful to the better angels of our nature and to what they call forth from us? Are we faithful to the eternal conversation of the human race, to speaking and listening in a way that takes us closer to truth? 

For the entire reflection.

Election Day Prayer Vigil 

From Washington National Cathedral
Tuesday, November 3 • 7 am–9 pm

As America votes in a contentious election, the Cathedral will open its doors for a 14-hour vigil of prayer and reflection on Tuesday, Nov. 3.

Throughout the day, clergy will lead continuous prayers, and we invite you to join us for a brief moment of peace and time in the presence of God. The vigil will be webcast throughout the day. 

Link to the Cathedral.

Prayer Vigil from SSJE

On Tuesday, 3 November—the night of the US elections—the brothers of the Society of St. John the Evangelist will hold a livestreamed vigil before the blessed sacrament. Beginning at 7:00 pm EST and concluding when the final polls close at 1:00 am EST, the brothers will pray in silence, punctuated by hourly psalms and litanies, praying for voters and government officials, for stability and transparency, for peace and justice, and for our shared political life. It will be a long night for the country; in the midst of this earthly uncertainty, we invite you to join us in watchful prayer, abiding together in the steadfastness of God.

SSJE.org/chapel

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If you have something to add to Gathered Wisdom, send it to Marjorie George at
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Gathered Wisdom, Oct 27

A weekly collection of inspiration and resources for the journey, gathered from websites, books, and pass-alongs that have been shared with us. From The Wisdom Years – Spirituality for the Last Third of Our Lives.

Encounter

Our encounters with God will generally come to us through secondary causes—that is, in the concrete, flesh-and-blood lives of Image-bearing humanity. Let us remember with thanksgiving all those human feet who have brought us good news, and let us pray also for the grace to be those feet that bring God’s good news to the world. -Br. Sean Glenn

Society of Saint John the Evangelist

Nine Days of Prayer for the Election

Forward Movement and The Episcopal Church Office of Government Relations are calling Episcopalians and all others to join in “A Season of Prayer: For an Election.” Starting October 27 and continuing through the day after the election, we are invited to pray for the election of leaders in the United States. Prayers are drawn from The Book of Common Prayer. Sign up to receive daily prayers in your email or download a PDF brochure. 

Read more about it

FROM: Forward Movement

Prayer Service for Hope

On the eve of a historic election and in the midst of pandemic and racial reckoning, Presiding Bishop Michael Curry will call Americans together for a live-streamed prayer service from Washington National Cathedral Nov. 1. The Holding on to Hope service will be held at 3:00-4:30 pm CST, and viewers can join in a variety of ways.

To read more and learn how to join the service

FROM: The Episcopal Church

Healing the Heart of Democracy

In 2011, Parker Palmer published his book Healing the Heart of Democracy: The Courage to Create a Politics Worthy of the Human Spirit. In the prelude, Palmer writes, “For those of us who want to see democracy survive and thrive—and we are legion—the heart is where everything begins: that grounded place in each of us where we can overcome fear, rediscover that we are members of one another, and embrace the conflicts that threaten democracy as openings to new life for us and for our nation.” Never more than today has democracy been in need of healing. 

Read or watch a podcast on Five Habits of the Heart that Help Make Democracy Possible adapted from the book

FROM The Center for Courage and Renewal

A Prayer for Stillness

In the midst of the strident voices and endless clamor that assault us, being still is more than a refuge. It is our way to God.Scripture assures us that if we are still we will come to know God,” says Ron Rolheiser, “but arriving at stillness is easier said than done. As Blaise Pascal once stated, ‘All the miseries of the human person come from the fact that no one can sit still for one hour.’ Achieving stillness seems beyond us, and this leaves us with a certain dilemma – we need stillness to find God, but we need God’s help to find stillness. With this in mind, I offer a prayer for stillness.”

Read the entire prayer

FROM the blog of Ron Rolheiser

If you have something to add to Gathered Wisdom, send it to Marjorie George at
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Gathered Wisdom, Oct 20

A weekly collection of inspiration and resources for the journey, gathered from websites, books, and pass-alongs that have been shared with us. From The Wisdom Years – Spirituality for the Last Third of Our Lives.

In a world that constantly asks us to make up our minds about other people, a nonjudgmental presence seems nearly impossible. But it is one of the most beautiful fruits of a deep spiritual life and will be easily recognized by those who long for reconciliation.

— Henri J. M. Nouwen in Bread for the Journey: A Daybook of Wisdom and Faith by Henri J. M. Nouwen

To Practice This Thought:
Restrain your tendency to evaluate and criticize everyone you meet.

From Spirituality and Practice 

What is God’s Call?

In the Fall 2020 issue of Cowley Magazine, published by the Society of St. John the Evangelist, Brother Lucas Hall writes about feeling stuck. “I feel some paralysis and malaise over the experience of not really moving forward, not really doing anything productive, constantly planning to do things, waiting for my working life to begin anew,” he writes. For many who are retired, this is a familiar feeling. We used to have productive work to do; now we feel lost. “But we are not created for the purpose of work. We are not, fundamentally, doers of things, means to some end. God has made us out of love for us, not because some cosmic chores needed to be done,” says Br. Lucas. 

Read the article.

See more great articles in the Fall 2020 issue of Cowley Magazine.

The Wisdom of the Christian Mystics 

An e-course from Spirituality and Practice
By Tessa Bielecki and Carl McColman

November 2 – 27, 2020

Celebrate some of the women and men, both classical and contemporary, who have explored the Mystery of life. Over the course of our journey together we will consider the code of chivalry, the sorrowful mother, soul friends, personal touchstones, healing the sacred wound, the relationship between contemplation and action, the earth and the body as sacraments of Divine Presence, the breath as our guide to deep meditation, the mysticism of resistance, and more.

Read more about this e-course and sign up here: 

FROM Spirituality and Practice

Reframing – 2020

An e-course from Spirituality and Practice
By Frederic and Mary Ann Brussat

November 2 – 22, 2020

Would you like to explore spiritually literate, counter-cultural ways to see things differently? This 21-day program provides readings and practices to help you reframe your experiences, turning adversity into advantage, disillusionment into blessings, and stumbling blocks into stepping stones. Daily emails for three weeks will help you not be overwhelmed by the immense negativities afoot in our world today. Discover the gift of seeing things differently!

Read more about this e-course and sign up here

FROM Spirituality and Practice

Presence and Absence in Love

By Fr. Ron Rolheiser, OMI

We experience many painful goodbyes in life. There are so many times when someone we love has to go away, or we have to go away. There are many times when, for whatever reason, someone has to move on and irrevocably change a relationship. Almost always this is painful, sometimes so painful that it leaves us feeling restless and empty, as if all the color, energy, and joy have gone out of our lives.

But, as we know, usually this isn’t the end of the story. Most of the time, after the restless, dark heartache of a painful goodbye has worn off, we experience the opposite, a deep joy in sensing now our loved one’s presence in different way.

Read the entire essay.

FROM the blog of Fr. Ron Rolheiser

It’s Still a Wonderful World

From our friend Verna Rizvi: Found this on Facebook this morning from Steve Johnson. Steve is a longtime member of The Church of the Nativity in Huntsville, AL, (my old parish) and also a newscaster on the local CBS affiliate. 

“Talking to a friend yesterday, and he was in a dark place. Hard to be very comforting, since I’ve been in the same place for weeks.”

Read the FaceBook post, converted to a PDF. 

If you have something to add to Gathered Wisdom, send it to Marjorie George at
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Gathered Wisdom is from The Wisdom Years, a ministry that invites older adults to deepening spirituality in the last third of their lives. If someone forwarded this to you, learn more about The Wisdom Years and subscribe to the site at
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Gathered Wisdom, Oct 13

A weekly collection of inspiration and resources for the journey, gathered from websites, books, and pass-alongs that have been shared with us. From The Wisdom Years – Spirituality for the Last Third of Our Lives.

Since Einstein, we have learned that there is no center; or alternatively, that any point is as good as any other for observing the world…. There are no privileged locations. If you stay put, your place may become a holy center, not because it gives you special access to the divine, but because in your stillness you hear what might be heard anywhere. All there is to see can be seen from anywhere in the universe, if you know how to look; and the influence of the entire universe converges on every spot.

— Scott Russell Sanders in Staying Put: Making a Home in a Restless World by Scott Russell Sanders

To Practice This Thought:
Sit quietly in your living room or back yard. Contemplate how you are connected to the universe.

FROM Spirituality and Practice

Genesis 1

Our Creator God is always at work.  This video from a storm chaser captures clouds being formed. Spectacular.

Watch the video

FROM Happily Daily

The Curious Promise of Limited Time

A somewhat new podcast from The Growing Edge (August 2020) features a conversation with Parker Palmer about living with an awareness of our own horizon line, when we become more aware of “the curious promise of limited time.” Also in this episode is a new (and free) single, “The Music Will Play On,” words & music by Parker J. Palmer, music by Carrie Newcomer. Carrie and Parker talk about the collaborative process that led to this song, and how it addresses “the curious promise of limited time.”

Listen to the podcast

FROM The Growing Edge podcasts

Giving Our Deaths Away

In this very long piece (12 pages), Fr. Ron Rolheiser of Oblate Seminary in San Antonio TX discusses what it means to die well. “To summarize a lot of anthropology and spirituality in a few simple categories,” says Rolhesier,  “it is not over-simplistic to say that there are three major stages of Christian discipleship: the struggle to get our lives together, the struggle to give our lives away, and, ultimately, the struggle to give our deaths away. But this last concept is largely foreign to us. How does one give his or her death away?” Worth the read. 

FROM The Forest Dwelling Program of Oblate Seminary (see below)

Living in the Forest of Wisdom

Forest Dwelling: Spirituality for our Wisdom Years is a two-year program from Oblate Seminary in San Antonio that is designed for mature seekers who desire to mindfully embrace the challenges and opportunities of aging and diminishment by accessing the deep wisdom embedded in the world’s great mystical and contemplative traditions. The goal of the Forest Dwelling program is to prepare participants to live wisely and well during their remaining years so that in the words of Henri Nouwen, “they might be able to give both their life and death away” for the sake of the world. This program of education and formation will include two five-day gatherings on the campus of Oblate School of Theology in San Antonio, Texas, (these my be held virtually due to the continuing pandemic) each year, directed online study, monthly participation in a small process group, regular spiritual direction and regular contemplative practice consistent with the participant’s primary spiritual tradition. A certificate will be awarded upon completion of the program.

To learn more about the program.

Thanks and Yes

Dag Hammarskjöld, a Swedish diplomat and the second Secretary General of the United Nations, died at the age of 56 in an airplane crash as he travelled to a warring region of Africa. These stirring words were discovered after his death in his journals (later published under the English title Markings): “For all that has been, THANKS, for all that is to be, YES!”

Read a reflection by Br. Jonathan Maury of the Society of St John the Evangelist on saying ‘thanks,” and “yes” even in this time of uncertainty.

FROM Society of St. John the Evangelist

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Gathered Wisdom, Oct 6

A weekly collection of inspiration and resources for the journey, gathered from websites, books, and pass-alongs that have been shared with us. From The Wisdom Years – Spirituality for the Last Third of Our Lives.

Autumn

by Rainer Maria Rilke

The leaves fall, fall as from far,
Like distant gardens withered in the heavens;
They fall with slow and lingering descent.

And in the nights the heavy Earth, too, falls
From out the stars into the Solitude.

Thus all doth fall. This hand of mine must fall
And lo! the other one:—it is the law.
But there is One who holds this falling
Infinitely softly in His hands.

This poem is in the public domain. From Poems (Tobias A. Wright, 1918), translated by Jessie Lamont.

Reflection on the poem

from Parker Palmer

I love autumn on my patch of the planet—it evokes a wide range of feelings in me. The beauty of the leaves lifts me into wonder. Then, as the leaves fade and fall, I drop into melancholy. So many metaphors, so little time!

In this poem, Rilke takes a deep dive into melancholy, then surfaces in a place of hope. Given all the “falling” of 2020—all the brothers and sisters who’ve had to say “it’s over,” all the loneliness we’ve known—I’ll follow anyone who lives into hope without blinking hard truths about how we got here and what’s required to set things right.

That’s what Rilke does for me in this poem, as long as I understand this: the hands that appear in the last line “holding up all this falling” are OUR hands. There’s no magic trick here, no cosmic sleight-of-hand here. This is about US.

If we allow 2020’s death and loneliness to animate us to care for ALL our brothers and sisters—and for the natural world on which we depend—then what has fallen to the ground among us will seed the flowering of new life. Fail at that task and 2020 will never end.

As we enter the last quarter of a year of crushing and avoidable tragedies, our job is to do what we can to help assure that 2021 will mark the start of a new era in our common life. 

—Parker J. Palmer 

FROM The Center for Courage and Renewal 

Parker Palmer is author of several books, including On the Brink of Everything, which the Wisdom Years will be studying beginning October 15.

On The Brink of Everything

by Parker Palmer

A new book study from 
The Wisdom Years – Spirituality for the Last Third of Our Lives

Thursdays, 4 p.m. (Central time) on Zoom
8 weeks starting October 15

In essays, poetry, and reflections on life gathered over his 80 years, master writer Parker Palmer invites us to travel this last season of our lives with courage, clarity, and an expectation of joy and peace. Our format will be reading and reflecting on a chapter each week on our own, then gathering in small groups to process what our souls have revealed to us.  We will not offer advice or pronouncements, but will glean insights by listening to each other. Groups will be gently structured to allow each person time and space to offer reflections. 

And stick around after the study each week for Happy Half-Hour, 5 to 5:30 pm.  Bring the beverage of your choice.

For more details and to sign up, email Marjorie George at marjoriegeorge62@gmail.com.

A Teen and a Senior Citizen Forge a Beautiful Connection Using the Internet

Through the DOROT project, which works to alleviate social isolation among senior citizens by helping them forge positive connections, 14-year-old Oliver Hollman spent his summer creating a documentary about a 96-year-old named Ted Comet. Comet, a humanitarian who helped traumatized Jewish war orphans after the Holocaust, says that the project with Hollman was an “energizing” experience that has allowed him to leave a legacy for descendants he will never meet. Through their conversations, the pair have formed a wonderful friendship that has enriched both their lives.

Watch the video.

FROM Happily Daily

To learn more about the DOROT project, click here

Hearing from Julian of Norwich for Today

In the 14th century, the Black Plague ravaged Europe, wiping out a third of the population. Into this, Julian of Norwich spoke words she had heard from Jesus as she lay in a coma. How can a woman whose family and community was ravaged by the Black Death say, ​“All shall be well?” And how does that compare with our current world situation? Pastor and Renovaré board member Mimi Dixon opens up the world of Julian of Norwich, a Medieval Christian with a surprisingly contemporary voice.

Listen to the podcast.

FROM Renovare

Coping with Complexity

By Fr. Ron Rolheiser

Holiness and wholeness are, ultimately, the same thing. To be holy is to be whole. That shouldn’t surprise us, grace builds on nature. What’s problematic is achieving wholeness. Why? 

Because we’re all so pathologically complex that we spend most our lives trying to figure out who we really are and trying on various personalities the way we try on different clothes. Allow me an example:

Read the entire essay.

FROM The blog of Ron Rolheiser

If you have something to add to Gathered Wisdom, send it to Marjorie George at
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Gathered Wisdom is from The Wisdom Years, a ministry that invites older adults to deepening spirituality in the last third of their lives. If someone forwarded this to you, learn more about The Wisdom Years and subscribe to the site at
ww.wisdomyears.org.

A New Book Study

On The Brink of Everything

Grace, Gravity, and Getting Old

by Parker Palmer

A new book study from 
The Wisdom Years – Spirituality for the Last Third of Our Lives

Thursdays, 4 p.m. (Central time) on Zoom

8 weeks starting October 15

(Ending Dec. 10.  Not meeting on Thanksgiving, Nov. 26)

In essays, poetry, and reflections on life gathered over his 80 years, master writer Parker Palmer invites us to travel this last season of our lives with courage, clarity, and an expectation of joy and peace. Palmer is concerned with finding meaning in what our lives offer us now and gleaning from our histories all that has made us who God created us to be.

Our format will be reading and reflecting on a chapter each week on our own, then gathering in small groups to process what our souls have revealed to us.  We will not offer advice or pronouncements, but will glean insights by listening to each other. Groups will be gently structured to allow each person time and space to offer reflections. 

And stick around after the study each week for Happy Half-Hour, 5 to 5:30 pm.  Bring the beverage of your choice.

In the eight weeks of our inquiry we will look at:

Prelude – reframing aging as a passage of discovery and engagement, not decline and inaction.

The View from the Brink – keeping our eyes open and asking the right questions

Young and Old – young and old connecting are like poles of a battery – energy is released

Getting Real – the spiritual life as an endless effort to penetrate illusion and touch reality

Work and Vocation – not the jobs by which we made a living, but the callings by which meaning becomes possible

Keep Reaching Out – staying engaged with the world

Keep Reaching In – staying engaged with our souls

Over the Edge – what happens when we die? 

To purchase a book from St. Mark’s Bookstore and have it mailed to your home, contact Carla Pineda at carlaleedpineda@gmail.comOr purchase a book on your own.

To join this study or if you have questions: send an email to Marjorie George at marjoriegeorge62@gmail.com.  Forward this notice to others you know of who might like to join us. 

To learn more about The Wisdom Years – wisdomyears.org.  

Do not now seek the answers which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them and the point is to live everything.  Live the questions now.  Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answers. – Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet