Gathered Wisdom, Feb 27, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Healing may not be so much about getting better, as about letting go of everything that isn’t you.

-Rachel Naomi Remen, Kitchen Table Wisdom, Stories That Heal

No matter our age, checking in with ourselves to see if we are living our values adds meaning and purpose to life. Here are some research-tested ways to figure out a way forward when we get derailed.

Read the article.

From Greater Good Magazine.

“We are living through the breakdown and breaking open of much that has defined modern life,” says Cameron Timble, a pilot and pastor. It’s time to loosen our grip.

Read the article.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

Terry Hershey quotes Joseph Campbell: we all must “have a room, or a certain hour (or so) a day, where you don’t know what was in the newspapers that morning, you don’t know what you owe anybody, you don’t know what anybody owes to you. If you have a sacred place and use it, something eventually will happen.”

Read the reflection.

From Sabbath Moment.

Abide has  a “gutsy quality” to it, says Br. Luke Ditewig. “Abide also means to remain or to stick with through challenge. Jesus says: ‘the Father stuck with me. I’ll stick with you no matter what. Abide in my love,’ Jesus says. ‘Remain with me.’ ”

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

Do we always have to open the door to let Christ in? Is the doorknob on the inside or on the outside? In John’s gospel, Christ goes to the huddled disciples after the resurrection and walks through the door. What does that teach us?

Read the reflection.

From Fr. Ron Rolheiser.

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Gathered Wisdom, Feb 20, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

This Lent, God’s invitation is to join in the great work of mending. That’s what redemption means: mending something that is torn or broken. Each one of us is called to share with God in mending that which is broken: our relationship with God, our relationship with one another, our relationship with our broken planet.

Br. Geoffrey Tristram, SSJE
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“Deep communion and dear compassion are formed much more by shared pain than by shared pleasure,” says Richard Rohr. Our wounds make sacred medicine. We must allow ourselves to be reclaimed by something deeper than the pain before us.

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

For Lent, Terry Hershey plans to honor a soft heart and make choices that spill from a soft heart. As Etty Hillesum said, “Ultimately, we have just one moral duty. To reclaim large areas of peace in ourselves, more and more peace, and to reflect it towards others.”

Read the reflection.

From Sabbath Moment.

The Sea of Galilee is a large fresh-water lake in northern Israel/Palestine that is prone to sudden and violent storms. This must be what happened to Jesus and the Disciples in the biblical story about Jesus calming the storm  (Luke 8:22–25) We also are afraid for our lives, with good reason, but Jesus assures us not to fear.

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

“Holiness is not an achievement; it is a grace,” says Anthony De Mello. It is only our nonjudgmental awareness that heals and changes and makes us grow. But in its own way and at its own time.

Read the reflection.

From Awakin.

What is the symbolism of the ashes put on our foreheads on Ash Wednesday? “Smudging oneself with ashes says that this is not a season of celebration for you, that some important work is going on inside you, and that you are, metaphorically and really, in the cinders of a dead fire, waiting for something fuller in your life,” says Fr. Ron Rolheiser.

Read the reflection.

From Ron Rolheiser’s blog.

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Gathered Wisdom, Feb 13, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Let there be
an opening
into the quiet
that lies beneath
the chaos
where you find
the peace
you did not think possible
and see what shimmers
beneath the storm

-Jan Richardson, The Cure for Sorrow: A Book of Blessings

As Bro. Curtis Almquist reminds us, “Lent is upon us.” Ash Wednesday is tomorrow. We remember the time Jesus spent in the wilderness before he began his public ministry. It was a time for Jesus “to re-align himself to why God had given him life: to claim the right purpose, the right power, the right voice God had given him.” The focus of Lent, says Bro. Almquist, “can create space anew for the light, and life, and love to Jesus to teem in us and through us to our desperately broken world. Lent is to help us.”

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.
Visit their website for their Lenten study offering.

Ilia Delio sees love as a fire of transformation. God’s fire, she says, “is destructive because it can swiftly eliminate all self-illusions, grandiose ideas, ego-inflation, and self-centeredness.” God’s fire will forge us into an ever-radiant new presence of God because God is forever being born within us.

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.
CAC will offer virtual sit meditations during Lent. Learn more here.

God is not against people having wealth – of money or talent or strength. The problem is that our wealth makes us think that we are self-sufficient, that we don’t need God. Jesus told us to be like little children because they understand that they need help.

Read the reflection.

From Ron Rolheiser.

Were the desert mothers and fathers just a set of cranky, people-hating monastics? Or did they really give up all they had and move into caves the better to love God?

Read the book excerpt.

From Renovare.

Benedict cautions us to “listen with the ear of your heart.” This is the call to the spiritual life, says Deacon Joanna Seibert. It is a way to live in the world still connected to God. “First, we are to listen and pay attention. We are to use the ear of our hearts. We are to connect to something outside ourselves, hearing and loving. We hear and learn about love in a community outside of ourselves.”

Read the reflection.

From Joanna Seibert.

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Gathered Wisdom, Feb 6, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

And you? When will you begin that long journey into yourself?

-Rumi, Love’s Ripening
Found in Well for the Journey

His parents told him he could buy whatever he wanted with his newspaper income, but when he bought a conga drum for twenty dollars, his father made him take it back. It was a memory that never left him.

Read the story.

From Terry Hershey’s Sabbath Moment.

What did her father do in an emergency, she was asked. You mean like the time the young man held them at knife-point while they were driving on the Big Sur coastline in California? That emergency? He was curious.

Read the delightful story.

From Awakin.

“The more you think you need to accumulate, the bigger fence you need to build around yourself and the fewer people you will trust and let into your life,” says Gareth Higgins, writing in Center for Action and Contemplation. “It’s the inverse of what it means to live in true peace and security, which only comes in the context of relationship with people you can trust.”

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

For what do you hunger? Can you even name it? Peace, yes, and freedom from fear. Safety for our children. A sense of spiritual well-being. And yet, our very daily practices undermine what we claim as our desires. Join the Wisdom Years community for a Lenten fast that invites us to lay down the old patterns and habits that deplete us and obstruct our full access to the divine image into which we were created.

Our study is from Feb 15 to March 21. We will meet weekly on Zoom for conversation, or you can use the material on you own.

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From The Wisdom Years.

Many good, healthy Christians speak of the “dark night of the soul,” a time when one feels completely bereft of God. It is a time when, as Fr. Ron Rolheiser puts it, “All the former ways you understood, imagined, and felt about things, especially as this relates to God, faith, and prayer, no longer work for you.”

Read the reflection.

More about Ron Rolheiser.

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Gathered Wisdom, Jan 30, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

May you arise each day with a voice of blessing whispering in your heart.

-John O’Donohue, “For Belonging,” To Bless the Space Between Us

For what do you hunger? Can you even name it? Peace, yes, and freedom from fear. Safety for our children. A sense of spiritual well-being. And yet, our very daily practices undermine what we claim as our desires. Join the Wisdom Years community for a Lenten fast that invites us to lay down the old patterns and habits that deplete us and obstruct our full access to the divine image into which we were created.

Our study is from Feb 15 to March 21. We will meet weekly on Zoom for conversation, or you can use the material on you own.

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From The Wisdom Years.

Your vocation, your calling in life, what you are to be now, will come out of your greatest strength and your greatest need, says Brother Curtis Almquist in this reflection on vocation. “When we are younger,” says Bro. Almquist, “our vocation – our calling – is more about what we are to do. When we are older, our vocation – our calling – is more about what we are to be.”

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

Like Christmas decor at Walmart, the U.S. presidential election season arrives earlier and louder every time around, says Brian Morykon, director of communications for Renovare.  Unlike Christmas, the election season—and politics in general—seems to many of us to have little redeeming value. To help us bring the presence of God into our lives in this election season, Renovare offers this prayer for the election season.

Read the prayer.

From Renovare.

Henri Nouwen once wrote, “The great challenge is living your wounds through instead of thinking them through.”  The choice we face in grieving, says Fr. Ron Rolheiser, is whether we are taking our hurts to our head or to our heart. “You need to let your wounds go down into your heart. Then you can live them through and discover that they will not destroy you.”

Read the reflection.

From the blog of Ron Rolheiser.

No place on earth is silent any more, says acoustic ecologist Gordon Hempton. And yet the silence of the natural world connects us back to the land in a way that nurtures and enchants us. Hempton says in silence he disappears.

Watch and listen to this peaceful video.

Found at Karmatube.

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Gathered Wisdom, Jan 23, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

The crucial work of social peace must join an on-the-ground commitment to interior peace, the kind that changes lives from the inside out.


Br. Keith Nelson, SSJE
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Like the hen who wanted to love and protect her chicks, says Barbara Brown Taylor in this classic essay, Jesus wanted to gather Jerusalem to himself (Matt 23:37). But they would not come. If you have ever loved someone you could not protect, you will understand.

Read the essay.

Found in Renovare.

The path to Christian unity, says Fr. Ron Rolheiser, does not consist in proving only one denomination is correct and trying to convert others to that point of view. Rather, it lies in “each of us living the Gospel more faithfully so as to grow closer to each other in Christ.”

Read the essay.

From the blog of Ron Rolheiser.

She thought it was going to be the best year of her life. Then she discovered how liberating life can actually be when we welcome its imperfections. Imperfection, she says, is not a goal; it’s more of a truth.

Read the essay.

From Grateful Living.

An attitude of scarcity says there is only just so much – food, money, power –  to go around and when you win, I lose. An attitude of abundance says there is plenty for all when we share. When you win, I also win.

Read the short reflection.

From Joanna Seibert.

A poem by Mary Oliver

Chunky and noisy,
but with stars in their black feathers,
they spring from the telephone wire
and instantly

they are acrobats
in the freezing wind.
And now, in the theater of air,
they swing over buildings,

Read the rest of the poem.

Found in Awakin.

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Gathered Wisdom, Jan 16, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Violence is immoral because it thrives on hatred rather than love. It destroys community and makes brotherhood impossible…Violence ends up defeating itself. It creates bitterness in the survivors and brutality in the destroyers.

-Martin Luther King, Jr., Nobel Peace Lecture, December 11, 1964
Found at Well for the Journey

Author Debie Thomas reminds us that even when evil is real and among us, like the weeds growing alongside the wheat in the field, our railing against it will not change it. Rather, God has a plan and is in charge.

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

Anthony DeMello reminds us that our intervention alone does not change a person. It is not what we do that brings holiness, says DeMello. “Holiness is not an achievement; it is a grace.”

Read the reflection.

From Awakin.

“Whether we feel good or bad about ourselves,” says Fr. Ron Rolheiser, “is often predicated on what kind of story we understand ourselves as living within.”  Christians recognize that we live within a bigger story than our own, and that gives meaning and dignity to our problems.

Read the essay.

From the blog of Ron Rolheiser.

Courtney Martin prays for peace, “By which,” she says, “I mean both may we not murder other people’s children, and also may we apologize to our own when we lob empty threats their way because we still haven’t learned how to take the deep breaths we are constantly asking them to take.”

Read the rest of the offered prayers.

From The Examined Family.

Living in our bodies not our heads, spending time with children, walking in nature are all ways to be present to the moment. “God is not in the past or the future, but is there to greet us in the present moment,” says Joanna Seibert.

Read the short reflection.

From Joanna Seiberts’ blog.

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Gathered Wisdom, Jan 9, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

To be available to the mystery means that you are open, expectant, waiting — continually poised on tiptoe, prepared to be illumined — not locked in your own expectations of how you think it should happen.

-Daphne Rose Kingma, The Book of Love
Found in Well for the Journey.

Fr. Ron Rolheiser looks at the difference between King Herod’s reaction at the news of the birth of Jesus and that of the Wise Men in the biblical story. One seeks to kill the new king, the others bring  gifts. How do you react when your star is being eclipsed? This article and more are part of the Wisdom Years Epiphany study now on the Wisdom Years website. (Art by Helen Taylor.)

Find the material for the entire study here.

From The Wisdom Years.

Dacher Keltner describes awe as “the feeling of being in the presence of something vast that transcends your understanding of the world” – a magnificent sunset, a tiny baby’s finger. But participants in recent research reported finding awe in ordinary places. Keltner suggests taking an “awe walk.”

Read the article.

From Awakin.

Joanna Seibert tells the story from Tolstoy about the three old hermits who turned out to be wiser than the bishop. She recalls that in the many times when she has tried to share her wisdom in retreats and classes, she most often learns from those who have been down-and-out.

Read the reflection.

From Joanna Seibert.

Terry Hershey recalls a story of how a poem brought healing to a group of young Kenyan women who were escaping from the horror of genital mutilation. Words of a poem have the power “to open doors, rather than shut them. To invite vulnerability, rather than disconnect us from our heart. To create space to give, rather than put up rigid boundaries that divide us from one another.”

Read the reflection.

From Terry Hershey’s Sabbath Moment.

“The roots of fear run deep,” says Steven Charleston in his book about the survival of Native Americans.  In today’s world, “the hope we embrace must run just as deep. No matter what happens we must keep dancing, hand in hand, joined in a circle of equality, constantly moving in the slow rotation of justice and prayer.”

Read the reflection.

Found in Center for Action and Contemplation Daily Meditations.

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Gathered Wisdom, Jan. 2, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Instructions for living a life:

Pay attention.
Be astonished.
Tell about it.

-Mary Oliver, “Instructions for Living a Life”
Found in Well for the Journey

Join The Wisdom Years for a 3-week exploration of the Epiphany light that beckons us to seek the path God intends for each of us to follow.

Each Monday, beginning January 8 for three weeks, you will receive an email with a link to our web page that includes:

If you are unable to join the Zoom gatherings, you are welcome to use the material on your own. Comments will be welcome on the web page.

For more details, visit https://wisdomyears.org/epiphany-the-lighted-path/

A poem from John Paul Moore

As I go along my journey
I’m reaping better than I’ve sowed
I’m drinking from the saucer
‘Cause my cup has overflowed.

Read the entire poem.

from Awakin.

Research has shown that “Doing nothing, but with a purpose to do nothing or no purpose at all, may help to decrease anxiety, bring creativity to the surface, and boost productivity,” says health journalist Elisabeth Almekinder.  The Dutch and other cultures have perfected the art of doing nothing.

Read more.

From The Blue Zones newsletter.

There are many good, right-thinking people today who are disenchanted with organized religion. They often were raised in the Church so they can neither walk away from it totally nor accept its faults and flaws. This is not a bad thing, writes Fr. Ron Rolheiser.

Read the essay.

From the blog of Ron Rolheiser.

This practice from Grateful Living reminds us that we are all connected to each other and are “held by life itself.” Using guided visualization and reflective prompts, this practice “focuses on tuning in to the constellation of your belonging.”

Engage the practice by listening to the audio or reading the transcript.  

From Grateful Living.

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Gathered Wisdom, Dec 20, 2023

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

A Blessing for Christmas Eve

From Kate Bowler  

You are here. What a wonder. 
Robed in the everyday majesty of a newborn,
so beautiful, so soft, so new. Perfect in the terrifying fragility
that thrills every parent. 
(Watch his head! Look at those tiny fingernails.)
God become human,
blinking at strange, new surroundings.
All wisdom and power poured into a smallness 
that knows hunger and gravity
and unseeing urgency for your mother’s skin.
And Mary, so newly parted from you,
turns her thoughts to the impossible angelic visitation that promised you’d come.
And she knew, somehow, staring at your eyelashes, 
that you were a great reversal 
here to put all things right.  

Blessed are we when our hearts warm with her.
You’re here. And we are too, newly come to worship
with kings and shepherds and barn animals and angels
as you light up the world on this holiest, loveliest night.  

Find Kate Bowler at https://katebowler.com/

This blessing is from Kate Bowler’s forthcoming book, Have a Beautiful, Terrible Day!, releasing January 23, 2024. 

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