Gathered Wisdom, January 15, 2025

A collection of inspiration and resources for your spiritual journey, gathered from websites, blogs, and pass-alongs that have been shared with us. From The Wisdom Years.

At the heart of any effective practice, whether it is explicitly spiritual, inherently creative, or rigorously physical, is a structure that clears and holds open a space and time for slowing down and letting go.

-Oriah Mountain Dreamer, The Dance
From Well for the Journey

With this edition, Gathered Wisdom expands its content and moves to monthly distribution. We hope something in this edition will spark an idea, bring you comfort, open a revelation, make you laugh, make you cry, or strengthen your resolve to be the best person you can be today, leaning on the grace of God.

The Epiphany story we have been told since our earliest years is about three majestic “wise men,” three strangers from the East who bring gold and incense and myrrh to honor the child Jesus. What then happens to them we do not know, and that is the point. “The idea is that they now disappear because they can now disappear. They have placed their gifts at the feet of the young king and can now leave everything safely in his hands,” says Fr. Ron Rolheiser. Herod, on the other hand, wants to kill him.

Read the reflection.

From the blog of Ron Rolheiser.

Jesus calls us to be the salt of the world – “to give the world taste, meaning, purpose, direction, desire,” says Richard Rohr. As Christians, we are asked to become “a true alternative to the normal motivations and actions of society,” not in some grand and braggadocios manner, not even always in charge, but to offer that which the world doesn’t already have and sorely needs. 

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

How can we say the world is a safe place and we are all in God’s hands when we see the atrocities that come upon so much of the world? “How can we prayerfully engage without completely losing our sense of sanity or peace?” asks Tiffany Clark in her essay on praying faithfully but realistically. Clark includes six practices for how to “remain fruitfully and sustainably engaged.”

Read the essay.

From Renovare.

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From Elders Action Network – The Power of Purpose
The path of purposeful aging is accessible to all – and is fundamental to health, happiness, and longevity.  With a focus on growing whole in later life, Richard Leider helps participants discover their purpose and create a legacy.

Online, Tuesday, Jan. 21, 10:00–11:30 am PT / 1:00–2:30 pm ET
Register HERE

Midwinter Light: Meditations for the Long Season, Marilyn McEntyre, Broadleaf Books.
Winter is quieter than other seasons, sometimes lonelier, and it opens us to pay attention. We surrender to natural forces and rhythms; our lives may be changed utterly as we grow deeper, more patient, more attentive to what’s outside our doors, in the night sky, or hibernating deep within ourselves.

Find it at St. Mark’s Bookstore bookshop in the The Wisdom Years/Aging/Eldering section or at your favorite independent bookstore.

Then, when night falls, he sees a bright light advancing swiftly over the sea behind the steamer. The old men have come, walking on the waves, begging him to be patient with their great stupidity and to teach them the prayer again.”—Tolstoy.

From Joann Seibert. Read the rest of the reflection.

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Gathered Wisdom, Nov. 19, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

When people enter into difficult conversations with honest love – able to deeply disagree and be disagreed with, without questioning the human dignity of the other – they have chosen to what they belong: love, reconciliation, and God. 

Br. Lucas Hall, SSJE
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Life is messy. But our God promises to stand with us in the midst of it. That is the message of Advent, says writer and podcaster Kate Bowler. This Advent, the Wisdom Years community will connect with the Advent message using Kate’s offering The Weary World Rejoices. We will read daily devotionals on our own, then come together on Thursdays, Dec. 5, 12 and 19 for an hour of online conversation.

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“For a path to be a path, you have to be able to see it, more or less, or at least catch glimpses of it, every so often,” says Br. James Koester. “And for that to happen, somebody needs to have walked it ahead of you.” Are you leaving a path for those coming behind you?

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

We belong to each other; we are created in part by our relationships with each other. The African word for it is ubuntu. “A person with ubuntu is open and available to others, affirming of others, does not feel threatened that others are able and good, for he or she has a proper self-assurance that comes from knowing that he or she belongs in a greater whole and is diminished when others are humiliated or diminished.”

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

It was at the building of the tower of Babel when suddenly people began to speak in many different languages such that they could no longer understand each other. We no longer speak the same language in this country, says Fr. Ron Rolheiser. “We can no longer understand each other on virtually every key issue. We no longer share any common truths. Rather, we all have our own truth, our own individual language.” (Painting by Pieter Brueghel the Elder created in 1563. Public domain.)

Read the reflection.

From the blog of Ron Rolheiser.

Yes, it’s scary out there. Yep, the world is going to hell in a handbasket. But now for some good news.

Watch the video or read the transcript.

Found in Daily Good.

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Gathered Wisdom, Nov 12, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

At the deepest levels of our hearts we are all aching, for each other and for the same eternally Loving One who calls us. It would be well, I think, if we could acknowledge this more often to one another.  
-Gerald May, Will and Spirit
Found in Well for the Journey

Life is messy. But our God promises to stand with us in the midst of it. That is the message of Advent, says writer and podcaster Kate Bowler. This Advent, the Wisdom Years community will connect with the Advent message using Kate’s offering The Weary World Rejoices. We will read daily devotionals on our own, then come together on Thursdays, Dec. 5, 12 and 19 for an hour of online conversation.

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St. Paul thought that the second coming of Christ would happen in Paul’s lifetime. Clearly it did not. How are we to live, then, in this secular world until we come to eternal life?

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

What do you expect from the morning sunrise? What if it’s cloudy and hazy?

Read the brief reflection.

From Interrupting the Silence.

We are living in love if we can maintain a daily yes, says Richard Rohr. “That doesn’t mean we don’t recognize injustice and stand against it, but we don’t let our hearts become hardened and our minds become rigid in its judgments.”

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

“Choosing kindness isn’t about avoiding our differences but navigating them with respect and compassion,” says a campaign that seeks to navigate faith and politics in a congregation with divided political views.

Read the reflection or listen to the NPR interview.

Found in Daily Good.

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Gathered Wisdom, Nov 5, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

In chaos, I choose love.
In conflict, I choose love.
Even to the end, I will choose love.
I will not save the world,
but I will help the world;
I will be a force for good.

-Steve Garnaas-Holmes, Unfolding Light (www.unfoldinglight.net)

Life is messy. But our God promises to stand with us in the midst of it. That is the message of Advent, says writer and podcaster Kate Bowler. This Advent, the Wisdom Years community will connect with the Advent message using Kate’s offering The Weary World Rejoices. We will read daily devotionals on our own, then come together on Thursdays, Dec. 5, 12 and 19 for an hour of online conversation.

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We need a little good news. Like hearing that however bad the storms of life become, Christ is there to calm the waters and bring peace. “Peace” and “be still” can be our watchwords also, says Bishop Barbara Harris.

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

What is the difference between being smart and being wise? “Wisdom is intelligence that’s colored by understanding,” says Fr. Ron Rolheiser. “When intelligence is not informed by empathy, what it produces will generally not contribute to the common good.”

Read the reflection.

From the blog of Ron Rolheiser.

How do we stay hopeful in the face of despair and disillusionment—especially when politics threaten to tear us in two? In this podcast, Kate Bowler speaks with Parker Palmer, a writer, teacher, and activist. Palmer brings wisdom from the years of living in this world without letting the bad in it overcome the good.

Listen to the podcast.

From Kate Bowler.

Getting older is about learning how to let go, says Bishop Steven Charleston – even letting go of names and memories we can no longer recall. He places memories with the Holy Spirit, to be recalled on the other side.

Read the short reflection.

From Joanna Seibert.

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Gathered Wisdom, Oct. 15, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Community means strength that joins our strength to do the work that needs to be done.
Arms to hold us when we falter. A circle of healing. A circle of friends. Someplace where we can be free.
Starhawk, American author and activist
From Well for the Journey.

Poet Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer reads poems that span grief and joy from her new collection, All the Honey. She speaks of what she knows now about grief she didn’t know before her son died.

Watch the video.

From Karmatube

We are all connected, says Richard Rohr. Everything is part of everything else. Rohr says, “We now take it for granted that everything in the universe is deeply connected and linked, even light itself, which interestingly is the first act of creation” (Genesis 1:3).

Read the reflection

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

How do we make decisions? Is it only facts and probabilities that we depend on to try to find the right choice? Or do we rely on some inner sense that we just know is correct? Mary’s acceptance of becoming the mother of Jesus did not come from reason.

Read the reflection. 

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

“One of the richest experiences of grace that we can have this side of eternity is the experience of friendship,” says Ron Rolheiser. “True friendship is only possible among people who are practicing virtue,” he adds.  “A gang is not a circle of friendship, nor are many ideological circles. Why? Because friendship needs to bring grace and grace is only found in virtue.”

Read the reflection.

From Ron Rolheiser.

Everyone is invited to join Election Night Virtual Prayers hosted by The Episcopal Church Office of Government Relations from 8 to 10 p.m. (ET) Nov. 5. 

Bishop Sean Rowe, who will become Episcopal Church presiding bishop on Nov. 1, will offer an opening reflection and prayer.

Episcopalians from around the church will hold silence and lead participants in prayers together for peace, the nation, and all people and countries.

For details, click here.

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Gathered Wisdom, Oct 1, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Your sacred space is where you find yourself over and over again. 

-Joseph Campbell, A Joseph Campbell Companion 

Retirement is one of the many transitions we face in the last third of life. And though we may choose it and welcome it, we still will go through difficult emotions. Hilda Davis offers this Flourishing in Transition (FIT) ritual as we seek clarity for the path ahead.

Read the article.

From the Fuller De Pree Center.

Autumn reminds us that there is a time to let go. Every autumn, says Joyce Rupp, “I turn and face the big question: how to cherish who and what I have but to hold these gifts freely, with open hands and heart.”

Read the reflection. 

From Joyce Rupp.

Our greatest faith struggle, says Fr. Ron Rolheiser, is being patient with God. Jesus said the meek will inherit the earth, but mostly it doesn’t seem so. Justice does not seem to prevail. “How long, O Lord?” we ask.

Read the reflection.

From Ron Rolheiser.

The early Franciscan friars were more interested in practicing and living the gospel than in simply teaching about it. What about us? The prophets ask, “Why aren’t you doing what you say you believe?”

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

It is not just in our quiet time that we connect with God. Everything we do, all day long, is part of our following and serving God.  Sometimes we are doing, other times we are being – it is all our offering to God.

Read the reflection.

From Joanna Seibert.

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Gathered Wisdom, Sept 24, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

May I be open to the teachings of this season of autumn, and turn, as autumn does, toward opportunities for my spiritual transformation.

Joyce Rupp, Out of the Ordinary
Found in Well for the Journey

We don’t like the hard sayings of Jesus. We want to hear words of comfort and forgiveness and acceptance. But sometimes we need to heed Jesus’ condemnation and call to repentance.

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

Why are we so hard on ourselves? We expect ourselves to be perfect, but being “perfectly human” means we will make mistakes, and when we do, we can admit them and learn from them. 

Read the reflection.

From Awakin.

We may be able to articulate what we believe as Christians, but do we put it into action? “We are called to study God and the Spirit,” says Deacon Joanna Seibert, “but we are also compelled to find the God within ourselves, leading us to discover and connect to the God in others.”

Read the reflection.

From the blog of Joanna Seibert.

The seasons of spring and summer, with their long days, are all about play and pleasure, notes Julie Peters writing in Spirituality and Health. During fall and winter, we have more hours of darkness than of light, more time for rest, solitude, and reflection.

Read the article.

From Spirituality and Health.

Even while we watch our society fall apart, a single episode with nature can bolster hope.  For this poet it was the starlings. This short video sets Maria Popova’s poem “But We Had Music” to captivating visuals. 

Watch and listen.

From Daily Good.

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Gathered Wisdom, Sept 17, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Peace in its most fundamental form is the connection of one human spirit to another.

Archbishop Desmond Tutu, from A Network from Grateful Living’s Everyday Gratitude
Found at Well for the Journey

There is nothing good about violence, says the late Rev. James Lawson, writing in Daily Meditations. “It drains emotional, psychological, moral, and spiritual energy with no good consequences.”

Read the reflection.  

Found in Center for Action and Contemplation.

The sky is falling, and what can one little sparrow do about it? Our society is crumbling, and what can one little act from you or me do about it? Maybe the one little thing we add will be the yeast to bring about change.

Read the reflection.

From Daily Good.

There is much to fret about in our world today, but Psalm 37 calls us particularly to leave off fretting. Instead, we must “claim our own agency to make for right in what is within our own reach and power,” says Br. Curtis Almquist, “especially on behalf of the powerless and voiceless in God’s creation.”

Read the short reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

As we age, we tend to become bitter, angry, and judgmental, especially against those who have not done the right things like we have, says Fr. Ron Rolheiser. We become the older brother in the story of the prodigal son. How fair is it that someone who hasn’t gone to church in years gets the same mercy from God as we who are there every Sunday?

Read the reflection.

More about Ron Rolheiser.

Brother Lawrence knew how to pray without ceasing – while he was scrubbing pots, cooking, or buying wine for dinner. Henri Nouwen says to turn unceasing thoughts into prayers.

Read the reflection.

From Joanna Seibert.

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Gathered Wisdom, July 16, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

I pray that I may serve by doing what is mine to do, knowing I will remember and forget, find and lose, knowing too that your infinite grace is everywhere when I choose to be attuned.

-Danna Faulds, “Prayers to the Infinite” 
From Well for the Journey

There are going to be tears and holes in the fabric of our lives. That is when we must remember our history – that Christ has always been with us, has always rescued us. “Remember your past, draw on your past, how you’ve been provided for, sustained, protected, healed, empowered up until now,” says Br. Curtis Almquist.

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

To be able to laugh at your most embarrassing moments in the past; To side with your former adversaries, if only for a glancing moment; To experience prayer as the automatic breathing of petitions for others’ good; and other short bits of wisdom.

Read the reflection.

From Joanna Seibert.

It was out of deep grief that Paula D’Arcy’s heart was opened. “Now that suffering was a lived experience, I realized there was so much I needed to change about how I understood life,” she says. “I had to move beyond my old conclusions.”

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

How long does it take to become more like Jesus? Oh, a lifetime or so. “Transformation almost always happens at a pace slower than we would expect or desire,” says Carolyn Arends.

Read the reflection.

From Renovare.

That is the wrong question, says Fr. Ron Rolheiser. The real question, especially at this stage of life, is “How can I help?” “A non-negotiable part of meeting Jesus,” says Rolheiser, “means being sent out, and not just alone on some private spiritual quest or individualized ministry. It means being called into community . . .”

Read the reflection.

From the blog of Ron Rolheiser.

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Gathered Wisdom, July 10, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

The compassion that I am learning to offer myself expands outward into compassion for others, as well. 

-Katrina Kenison, Magical Journey
From Well for the Journey

We may think that the tapestry of our life is ended. But perhaps there is a new tapestry to weave in these later years.

Read the reflection.

From William Martin.

Fr. Ron Rolheiser reminds us that “gospel” means “good news,” not “good advice.” The gospels, says Rolheiser,  “are not so much a spiritual and moral theology book that tell us what we should be doing but are more an account of what God has already done for us.” Zacchaeus is our model.

Read the reflection.

From the blog of Ron Rolheiser.

The baby eagle grew up in a chicken coop and consequently thought he was a chicken. A naturalist came along and convinced him he was really an eagle. What is your reaction to this interesting fable? Would you have left the bird alone to be a happy chicken, or keep urging him to embrace his true nature?

Read the reflection.

From Awakin.

Br. Lucas Hall reminds us that God is not simply a concept – a set of principles or a series of instructions that we simply need to download into our brains and then we’ll be good. God is active, because life is active. Life moves. Life responds. We are invited to participate in that living.

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

The ego insists on knowing and being certain; it refuses all unknowing, says Richard Rohr. “We cannot grow in the great art form, the integrative dance of action and contemplation, without a strong tolerance for ambiguity, an ability to allow, forgive, and contain a certain degree of anxiety, and a willingness to not know—and not even need to know,” says Rohr.

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

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