Gathered Wisdom, June 4, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Be Brave
Little Things
Still Matter Most

Naomi Shihab Nye, Voices in the Air
Found at Well for the Journey

Sometimes, getting older feels like the “dark night of the soul” that St. John of the Cross wrote about. Most significantly, says Alice Fryling, “the dark night is not a sign of failure or weakness but a means of growth—growth that happens through surrendering.”

Read the reflection.

From the De Pree Center at Fuller Seminary.

The Apostle Paul calls us to “Pray without ceasing”  in his first letter to the Thessalonians (5:17). But how exactly do we do that when there are so many worldly demands on our time?

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

“Today neither our culture nor our churches give us sufficient permission to be sad,” asserts Fr. Ron Rolheiser. But sometimes our soul is telling us to be sad, and we best pay attention.

Read the reflection.

From the blog of Fr. Ron Rolheiser.

Fox tracks are almost always in a single straight line. That is because the gait of a fox is such that their back paws land exactly in the print of their front paws. “It speaks to me of purpose and direction,” says  Deacon Joanna Seibert. “So, what stride, direction, and pace do I strive to follow?” she asks.

Read the reflection.

From the blog of Joanna Seibert.

It was sitting around a picnic table where Courtney Martin found neighbors who practiced palliative care with her demented father, just by being kind and caring.

Read the story.

From The Examined Family.

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Gathered Wisdom, May 28, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Both the gospels and science are showing us the potential of finding short interludes of time to be still, to let go, and to create that nanosecond of pause that can open us to the power of God in us to transform our lives and the world around us.
-Caroline Oakes, Practice the Pause

Have you ever been feeling blue and lonely when suddenly your best friend calls? Carl Jung called it synchronicity.  We call it “a God thing.”

Read the short reflection.

From Joanna Seibert.

We’ve been told over and over that the person most being harmed when we refuse to forgive is us. But, says Dr. Robert Leichtman, forgiveness is more than demonstrating our good manners in words and gestures of kindness.

Read the essay.

From Insight Timer.

The story says that St. Alban was converted to Christianity by watching and listening to a priest at prayer. Perhaps the Christianity that we show by our lives will bring others into God’s kingdom in ways we may never know.

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

Do we more easily care for our neighbors whom we know than for total strangers? Do we not recognize the dignity of every person in each of them? Can we at least not look away?

Read the meditation. 

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

What would you do if mama birds were sitting on nests above both of the doors into your house? This family grabbed a ladder and went in and out the kitchen window.

Read the story.

Found in Daily Good.

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Gathered Wisdom, May 21, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

No one ever knows what divine narrative God may be writing with the crooked lines of someone’s struggles, misdeeds, and omissions. 

-John O’Donohue, Eternal Echoes
From Well for the Journey

Brother David Vryhof reminds us that there are two Pentecost events in scripture. The first occurred when Jesus breathed on his disciples on the night of his resurrection. A gentle giving. (Jn 20:22). The second, in the Book of Acts, was a violent event (2:1-21). Are we brave enough to light a fire under the Church?

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From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

It is only by living in the spirit that Jesus’ disciples – and we – can do what Jesus did. Richard Rohr translates Jesus’ invitation to “Be compassionate, just the way your Father is compassionate” (Luke 6:36). 

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

Moses would rather have been left alone to tend to his sheep. Send Aaron instead, he said to God. But God had need of Moses; he was chosen for the job because he had seen his people’s suffering.

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From Ron Rolheiser.

Terry Hershey recalls that during the Bosnian War, Serbs surrounded the city of Sarajevo. Even while the war raged and people were killed, even in the midst of gunfire, members of the city orchestra brought their instruments into the town square, where they played day after day. Did they have some internal fortitude that the rest of us do not?

Read the reflection.

From Sabbath Moment.

God gives God’s holy spirit not to those who are worthy, for none of us is worthy. God gives God’s spirit to those who want it, says Richard Rohr.

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

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Gathered Wisdom, May 14, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Let’s slip out the side door of sorrow/Round past the watchman of worry/And make room for the green fields beyond…An act of joyful defiance.

-Steven Charleston, Spirit Wheel: Meditations from an Indigenous Elder

One of our problems is that we tie hope to outcomes, says Brian McLaren. “When our prime motive is love, a different logic comes into play. We find courage and confidence, not in the likelihood of a good outcome, but in our commitment to love.”

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

Suleika Jaouad writes that he would not reverse his diagnosis of cancer if he could. It has given him a “jeweler’s eye” – the ability to focus on the reality of what is right before you. “Rather than fighting your circumstance, rather than wallowing in sorrow and anger, you can begin to see it as an invitation. You can begin to interrogate it, to watch new and unexpected things emerge.”

Read the reflection.

From Awakin.

Frances Perkins was the first woman to serve on a U.S. Cabinet, appointed by President Franklin D. Roosevelt as Secretary of Labor in 1933. Among her practices was taking a personal retreat once a month. “Who better to advocate for the needs of the everyday worker than one who knows her own need for refreshment?” writes Ann Benton Fraser.

Read the reflection.

From Grow Christians.

The story of Thomas is one of the most moving in the gospels, writes Br. Geoffrey Tristram. It is a story of love, not proof.  “The story of Thomas is rather the story of a man who comes to believe not because he has enough proof, but because he has actually touched the mystery of divine, self-sacrificial love.”

Read or listen to the sermon.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

An old trend has become a new trend – three or four generations living together. It’s mostly about cost of living, says this article. It’s also good for both older and younger families.

Read the article.

Found in Marketplace.

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Gathered Wisdom, May 7, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Prayer is a mystery that begins in God. Our prayer is always in response to God’s initiative. It is God who has caught our attention.

Br. Curtis Almquist, SSJE
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Stillness and silence can be a fullness, rather than a void, says Terry Hershey. Healing space, he adds, is “an invitation to the sacrament of the present moment. To be here now. Fully.”

Read the reflection.

From Sabbath Moment.

As we age, we face “uncreation,” says Richard Rohr. What we have created in our younger years is no longer important. “My self-created self gave me a nice trail to walk on, and something to do each day, but it isn’t really me. It might be my career or my vocation; yet as good as it is, it isn’t my True Self. ” 

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

No matter how determined we are to right the wrongs of the Church, our bitterness, anger, judgmentalism, and mean spiritedness are not the way to do it, says Fr. Ron Rolheiser. Right truth and right morals don’t necessarily make us disciples of Jesus.

Read the reflection.

From Ron Rolheiser’s blog.

Lucy Grace grew up in a neighborhood where gangs ruled and initiation into them involved things like raping someone’s mother. But Lucy learned to hold her thumb as a symbol of how things would be better some day.

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Found in Daily Good.

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From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

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Gathered Wisdom, Apr 23, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

God’s mission is to restore and renew all of creation in a loving embrace. Jesus intercedes and invites our participation.

Br. Luke Ditewig, SSJE
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A beloved professor tells the story of Jewish students and Muslims students going to New Orleans together to help clean up after Hurricane Katrina hit in 2005. It was a strained relationship until they started dancing.

Read the reflection.

From Daily Good.

The woman who was out of place, the woman who had just poured expensive perfume all over Jesus.  Simon saw a sinner; Jesus saw a woman in pain. Do we actually “see” those in need that Jesus places in front of us?

Read the article.

From Renovare.

Fr. Ron Rolheiser writes that at funerals, he tells the grieving family that their loved one  “is now in hands safer than ours.” Our God is reliable, says Rolheiser. “Ultimately, God is not a God who cannot protect us, but is a God in whose hands and in whose promise we are far safer than when we rely upon ourselves.”

Read the reflection.

More about Ron Rolheiser.

Christian philanthropist Fred Smith says that Paul’s Letter to the Romans “has had more impact on Western civilization and the life of the Church than any other he wrote.” Yet Paul never intended to stay in Rome; he was only passing through on his way to Spain. How do we deal with it when our plans are totally derailed by something not of our own making? Can we see it as God’s plan for us?

Read the reflection.

From The Gathering.

Sometimes you just need a friend to hold your hand. Sometimes you need to be a friend who will hold someone’s hand.

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From Sabbath Moment.

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Gathered Wisdom, April 16, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Having compassion starts and ends with having compassion for all those unwanted parts of ourselves. The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy.

-Pema Chodron, Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living
Found in Well for the Journey

With her characteristic wit and wisdom, Anne Lamott offers some lessons for all of us to think about. “Number two: almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes — including you.”

Read or watch the TED talk.

Found in Daily Good.

Joanna Seibert recalls the story of the accident that changed her life and set her on the course of ministry that became her life’s work. Her career in pediatric radiology, working in recovery, becoming a spiritual director, and being a pastoral caregiver—all have opened up to her as a direct result of her broken feet, she says.

Read the reflection.

From Joanna’s blog.

“Art images are real and alive and have the power to change us and cause change,” says Richard Rohr. “They can shift our perspective on what we thought we knew and understood about a subject.” Art is more than decoration, he says. It can be an entirely new experience, “which perhaps cannot be accessed in another way.”

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

When you are troubled, speak your truth and stay in community, says Br. Luke Ditewig. “If you are waiting for new life, tell a trusted companion or group your experience and let them wait with you,” he adds.

Read the reflection.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

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Gathered Wisdom, April 9, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Our breath is also like a wave, gently rocking us into a deep peace. In this state of rest, our body and mind can release their burdens.
A lot of healing happens just by letting go and sinking into this state of total relaxation.

-Thích Nhất Hạnh, The Heart of the Buddha’s Teaching: Transforming Suffering into Peace, Joy, and Liberation
Found in Well for the Journey

Pilgrims are those who walk not to a particular destination but simply to see where God takes them. In their book Pilgrimage into the Last Third of Life, authors Jane Marie Thibault and Richard L. Morgan invite us to walk through seven gateways that we encounter as we age. With the book as a guide, the next Wisdom Years study will join the authors in our own pilgrimage with trusted companions. The study begins April 18.

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Joanna Seibert points out that in the resurrection stories, we see Jesus in ordinary settings – cooking, eating, walking on the road – not coming to his disciples, and to us, from on high but in everyday encounters.

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From Joanna Seibert.

In a moving remembrance, biblical scholar Renita J. Weems recalls the Sabbath of her childhood: the one day a week when Black workers could set aside worries about the mundane and renew their love affair with eternity…. 

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

In a brief poem, Howard Thurman reminds us that we can only touch our sacredness with our own inner authority and consent. Thurman describes it as the angel with the flaming sword so that nothing can be placed upon our altar without our consent.

Read the poem.

From Awakin.

“Have you been saved?” we are sometimes questioned by certain Christian evangelists. But salvation is not a one-step process, says Br. Jonathan Maury. Rather, “the Gospel calls us to examine what it actually means ‘to be saved’; to embrace the fulness of this salvation and to understand its meaning and urgency for our mortal lives and how we shall live, in these present days.”

Read or listen to the sermon.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

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Pilgrimage for the Later Years

In an ideal world, a human life should be a constant pilgrimage of discovery, says the late Celtic poet John O’Donohue (from Eternal Echoes). For it is in the discoveries that we come to know ourselves and our relationship with God in new ways.

We will follow the path of pilgrimage, the path of discovery,  for our Easter season study using Pilgrimage into the Last Third of Life by Jane Marie Thibault and Richard L. Morgan. The authors offer seven “gateways” to spiritual growth in our later years, and we will explore each of these gateways, traveling as pilgrims and open to whatever God reveals to each of us.

  • facing aging and dying
  • living with limitations
  • doing inner work
  • living in and out of community
  • prayer and contemplation
  • redeeming loss and suffering 

Each week of the study we will post on the Wisdom Years website some commentary for each gateway, questions for reflection, and additional resources.

We will then take a short break and pick up with the gateway of “leaving a legacy” on Thursdays, June 13, 20, and 27. Our summer break will encompass July and August.

If you are unable to join us for our Thursday Zoom gatherings, you are welcome to use the material on your own.

Participants in this study will need to buy their own copy of Pilgrimage into the Last Third of Life by Jane Marie Thibault and Richard L. Morgan. The book is available through St. Mark’s Bookstore at stmarksbookstore.com.  Order by clicking the bookshop link.  Or use your favorite retail book store.

Gathered Wisdom, Apr 2, 2024

A weekly curated collection of essays, poetry, and reflections for your spiritual journey.  From The Wisdom Years.

Behold my friends, the spring has come; the earth has gladly received the embraces of the sun, and we shall soon see the results of their love!

-Sitting Bull as quoted in Sitting Bull: The Collected Speeches by Mark Diedrich
From Well for the journey

If we don’t believe and live out Christ’s resurrection, how will we pray for God’s kingdom to come?  “How will we credibly usher in that kingdom in whatever small ways we can here and now, if we don’t believe in its ultimate fulfillment,” asks Debie Thomas, writing in CAC’s daily meditations.

Read the reflection.

From Center for Action and Contemplation.

The good news of the resurrection is not simply a promise to you and to me. It is a promise to all creation, that all things will be made new.  “In a world that stinks, the resurrection of Jesus is good news to all,” says Br. James Koester, “because it is a promise of life that is mended, healed, cleansed, and restored.” 

Read or listen to the sermon.

From Society of St. John the Evangelist.

There are many reasons we can lose our identity and our connection to God, says Joanna Seibert. Most of the reasons are based in fear.  It is in community that we are restored, with the help of others who tell their own stories.

Read the reflection.

From Joanna Seibert.

“Music is the one thing that opens up people’s brains, and it helps fire off neurons on both hemispheres of the brain,” say scientists and doctors.  Children are often amazed when their parents who suffer from dementia come alive when they hear a familiar tune.

Read the article.

Found at public radio station WLRN in South Florida.

By Mary Oliver

Somewhere
a black bear
has just risen from sleep
and is staring
down the mountain

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Found at tumblr online.

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